- National
AGAINST WOMEN AND GIRLS IN THE PHILIPPINES
(Speech delivered by REPRESENTATIVE EDCEL C. LAGMAN, Deputy
Secretary General, Asian Forum of Parliamentarians on Population and
Development, during the Asia-Pacific Parliamentarian’s Meeting on Engaging
Men in Preventing Violence Against Women and Girls on 06 September 2009
in Bangkok, Thailand)
The ancient Romans believed strongly in a concept called patria potestas that included the right of men to beat their wives who were considered their chattel or property. In a deeply patriarchal society, it was not uncommon for Romans not only to maim but even kill supposedly errant wives in the exercise of rights of Roman male citizens.
Half a millennium ago, medieval jurists, in a rare display of “progressive” thinking, decided to amend English feudal law which regarded women as the property of their husbands and thus allowed – even encouraged – them to beat their wives. In an effort to reduce the gravity of acts of violence against women, the new law allowed men to still beat their wives only if the sticks they used did not exceed the width of their thumb. This eventually became the source of the phrase “rule of thumb”.
Fortunately, times have changed and in most countries it is now illegal for men to lay hands on their wives – not even a thumb on a woman’s body. Although by law women are protected from violence in all its forms, these abhorrent crimes remain widespread and unchecked even in countries like the Philippines where statutes are in place to safeguard the right of women to live lives free of violence.
This is mainly because crimes against women, especially domestic violence, continue to be shrouded in secrecy and shielded from public scrutiny because of its so-called “private” nature. The problem is compounded by the sense of shame victims feel and their resulting hesitancy to report such crime no matter how life threatening to them or to their children.